Really, think about it, you make the decision to have someone in your life. Someone to spend time with, someone to come home to and all those things. So, why is it so hard to find someone? It's not like I'm asking for rocket science.
Prefer male as I'd like to have a marriage WITH sex this time.
Should not be a complete scumbag. I can accept some mild scumbagedness. What would I do with a guy who was too good for me?
Tall would be nice but not essential. Maybe I will find other reasons to look up to him.
Decent looking, not the sort you would expect to appear on wanted posters at post offices and police stations. Other assests would be good hands and a smile. A guy who doesn't have cooties is a real plus.
Intelligence, now this I do kind of crack down on. I expect a guy to have some spelling ability. I can't live with a guy who is barely literate. It would fester and bug me over time.
Humour, no moody bastards.
That's the list really. Maybe a few odds and ends like not currently in prison or not currently married or gay.
Why is it so hard to find a guy? I know the age thing is a small problem. I don't want to date a 20-something. I'd feel I was corrupting a minor. It would be like a 20-somthing dating a 10 year old. Just not a good thing.
Oh well, still hunting, I thing my aim is improving.
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I do talk to everyone and I have joined some things. I think the problem is that I become the friend to everyone and nothing approaching romance enters anyone's head. Always the world's best friend, never the bride.
But, I am kind of burnt out from the friend thing. You can only save the world so many times before you wonder why they can't get off their ass and do something for themselves. ;)
I remember reading something once about relationships that stated if you want girls to see you as a boyfriend you have to be a clear about it right from the start. If they aren't interested in that then just move on.
Otherwise it will just turn into a friendship.
Reading this comment is helping me remember why I hardly ever read any more, tee,hee..
Happy, if you stopped running them over with your bike, shopping cart, what ever is at hand, you'd have a lot more luck with women. Also, we really don't like being dragged around by our hair.
At least you're trying, one way or another. Good luck. :P
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