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Saturday, November 1, 2008

Bad Boy Memes

Ben has a post about memes. Ten reasons why memes are wicked and unwanted and undesirable. If memes were men we would all want one at this point. Isn't that kind of ironic?

I posted a comment sticking up for the lowly meme. Add your thoughts about the life of the meme to Ben's blog.

I do memes if they are interesting or if someone I regularly read tags me with one. I pass on most of them because they are repetitive. It's easy to jump all over memes and be part of the "in" crowd. But my blog is personal and having traffic is interesting but not the reason I keep a blog. I do a meme if I want to. Answering the questions are fun if you don't take them seriously. No one needs to know your first pet's name but you don't have to take it seriously and give a real answer. Instead of writing a pet's name write the name you called your last boyfriend when you played naughty games. That's far more fun than reading anything real or true.

I wrote a confession to being a nose picker once and had loads of comments, most laughing about my post. One posted about how unsanitary that is and blab, blab, blab. It didn't matter. The post was fun to write and it still gets traffic even though it's well buried in my archives now.

Last of all, you're making a mistake if you write a blog to please your readers. You lose something when you write for an audience. It's much more interesting to step inside a blog when someone is writing just to please themselves. You take more chances and are far more likely to be unique and original. Anything less is just following the crowd and then you're just one more blog in the swamp.

3 comments:

Izabela said...

I checked his post about memes (I never called it that name yet, ha) and I think he has got some good advices for bloggers... I personally like this sort of playand I do not do this to often, the last one was actually good and I enjoyed reading random things about people I know... what was useless but sometimes funny...

Teena in Toronto said...

Interesting post. I do memes if it interests me. Or if I'm in the mood.

lattégirl said...

I generally only do memes if they are well-worded,thoughtful, and insightful. I think over the years I have done a couple of the "7 Weird Things About Me" meme and after the second time, knowing that my readership is family and and a small group of blogger friends, that I was risking repetition.

But choosing not to do memes is partially the domain of the free blogger... that is to say, the one who has been freed from the confines of being paid to blog. The other part is that some memes are just fun. Those seem to be few and far between, however.