From the Divorce Drama blog. I like this one, looks like he fell down the stairs, surely, purely an accident. ;)The irony of men and women and sex now that I am over 40 is that I don't need a man to have a great orgasm. They fumble around and do what some porn star did to herself... but they really don't have a flying clue. They just aim for the targets, the same targets every time. Also, they have gotten so bored in just playing with themselves that now they need games, BDSM or porn or whatever. I don't need any of that and I don't need a man to mess things up.
I can be reading something not about sex, not especially erotic or sensual and get those nice squishy thoughts and just slip my fingers down and operate my own lovely orgasm with light fingertip control. Much stronger orgasms than I ever had with a man. Even when we weren't having sex and he was supposed to be "doing me".
It is sad to read the personals when all the ads from men are just lonely jerk offs wanting someone to do it for them, more or less. They have nothing of romance or interest in developing a real intimacy. Even if they say they do, they usually lie (to themselves or to you).
I think there really is no hope to find a man over 40 who wants to have something more than a screw. I'd like to find someone to date, go away for weekends, go grocery shopping, go out to movies and have in my life. But, none of these screw me types will do. I don't need them to have an orgasm and since that is all they are offering (offering, not actually guaranteed they are capable) there is no reason to waste time on them.
Maybe some guy will drop out of a tree, one who actually does want to be close in more than just sex, but I doubt it. I still try now and then but I'm really getting tired of men in general. It doesn't matter what they look like, what they do, etc. They all seem to be just one giant flaming penis. Which, for me, makes them unnecessary. Do you think, if men were a species (rather than the other gender of our own), they would be extinct by now? I wonder about that.
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I'm already feeling extinct, actually. A large part of the problem is that we can't decide if we're supposed to be animals or something more refined (divine?). The contradiction usually resolves itself in negative ways, as modern man isn't good at balancing acts.
I do miss my husband sometimes cause he did give me the other side of the coin when it came to things like this. It often was surprising to hear his outlook cause it was nothing I could have expected. Thanks for posting Franscud, I do want to understand and though I am frequently frustrated I would like to find someone. I feel I am running out of time really fast.
Extinct, lol. Quite possible. Another view, though, from my Dad, who had a slightly different version of your dilemma after my Mom died. He was 55, financially comfortable, good-looking - and it was obvious that most of the women he met were looking for a man to help them raise their kids (yes, kids) and pay their bills. They didn't really want a relationship, just their own version of "meet my needs."
Good news is that eventually he did meet a wonderful woman and got remarried and they're happy. So I hear you, but don't give up hope. It just takes time to find worthwhile people.
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