Spoilbedsports

I've been called a prude before, as recently as this week in fact. We were talking in an email list about married men looking for a serious part tme screw. It was a BDSM forum so the old thing about safe, sane and consensual gets batted around. I argued that any guy who cheats on his partner is not playing by the SSC 'rules'. How would any woman/ partner trust him if he is lying to his full time partner. If you can't trust the person you intend to submit to you have no business being in the same room as them.

Anyway, I didn't start writing this about trust or SSC issues. I was thinking about how funny it is that I am (possibly) a prude who tends to jump into bed with a new guy pretty quickly. What kind of a prude brings a guy home (when she is alone in a large house) then changes into something red, slinky and slutty after a few minutes of conversation? Prudish? I think not, not that I'm bragging about it. I'm not proud of my sluttish bedsporting ways. I'm not ashamed either.

I always intend not to sleep with him (it, cause really on a first date you don't know HIM that well you just want IT) but once the date goes along and we become alone together I find myself considering my feelings and wondering what the point of all this conversation is when I could be having more fun doing things rather than making small talk. Sex is fun, all that touching, seeing how a man will choose to touch your body. Finding out what kind of lover he really is. Do you like his gentle caresses or does that rough bite turn you on a lot more.

Sadly, all of the men I sleep with tend to never go all the way for various reasons. That whole pregnant thing. It always seems to get in their way, doesn't bother me. I'm not a teen aged virgin. I'm a woman. Besides, they could always wear condoms that actually fit rather than looking for a size too big for what they've got. Spoilbedsports.

I added this as an update to Adult BackWash. Is there any point in keeping that going? I'm not thinking there is. There are other optiions.