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Friday, April 15, 2005

Marriage Boycott

I was skimming/ reading another blog and one of the posts about a post was some guy raving about boycotting marriage cause women were evil and there was no sex after marriage. The usual silliness.

It had me thinking. First, the marriage boycott works both ways. Secondly, who has more reason to boycott marriage these days than we do? The days of women at home and men working are pretty over. Women work, women cook, women clean, women kill their own bugs, get step ladders to reach the high shelves and we can have an orgasm without a man being in the room. So, where does that leave modern man?

If he isn't contributing to the running of the household, is he just another thing to be cleaned and maintained? Bringing in a pay cheque isn't enough. Women who have a job and come home and clean the house, cook the dinner, take care of kids and then get told it's time to wake up and have sex, might not see the good point in having a man around the house.

Men need to put out. I don't mean sex. Put out the garbage, wash the clothes, tidy the kitchen, pick up the dry cleaning, vacuum the rugs, walk the dog, get the kids out of the house early on Saturday morning and then wake up for sex too. It's being part of a couple, rather than a woman and her self contained sex toy. Sex isn't enough, women want someone to come home to with a smile. The guy that makes us smile and glad to see him. That's they guy we want to come home to, that's the guy we want to wake up beside and do all kinds of wicked, wanton shameless things to. Things you wouldn't discuss with anyone but him.

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